I would like to help with 3 habits.
encourage instead of criticizing
understand instead of a judge
Initiate instead of wait.
The above 3 habits can help you in turning life style. Let me go further to share with you that I never discuss people and events. This habit will help you in moving forward and save you lots of time and energy.
Is it possible to live without discussing people and events.?
my answer is YES.
Initially, it could be difficult for anyone as you are changing attitude but extremely helpful to you at the later stage. You can have lots of productive time and use it very much constructively.
Initial in any matter could be changed later after listening, observing and watching whole things.
The initial attitude is faithful and trustworthy quality. Usually, people are becoming slow after couple of bad or worst experiences. But, I suggest strongly that do not allow them to break down you and your spirit.
Do not you think that you have to remind that you are the best and doing the best you can and that is truly enough to move forward.