i would like to share few great learning.
1/ I am responsible for what i say not what you understand.
2/ Trust in trust. Trust will help in understanding. Even, wrongly quoted words could be taken up positively.
3/ Situation, person, time and space all are responsible for taking decisions. Of course, it is taken up by you but you are not totally accountable for decisions.
4/ Goals must be realistic.
5/ Water and character are found on the same roads. Boil the water as much as you like, it will evaporate. Same the character. Never lose the identity and originality.