There is a difference between self- enteric and selfishness.
You have to take care of yourself as there is nothing beyond your body, at least on this planet.
1/ prioritize yourself and the goals of life…
2/ It could benefit you tomorrow. It has more relationship with your future.
3/ You are drawing boundaries.
4/ You are extending your limits.
5/ You are bringing out a new version of your selves. It may discard some old relationships, some old habits, and some old ways to walk over.
6/ You are moving with reality and hard to accept it, thinking to change it and looking forward to a nice future.
7/ when you decide to get yourself done, immediately, think about the others, who are closely connected to you.
Remember, self-love is the greatest fact of life. You have to bind yourself with the facts.
i would love to share the classic poetry of Rabindranath Tagore.
When I’m dead.
Your tears will flow
But I won’t know
Cry with me now instead.
You will send flowers,
But I won’t see
Send them now instead
You’ll say words of praise
But I won’t hear.
Praise me now instead
You’ll forgive my faults,
But I won’t know…..
So forget them now instead.
You’ll miss me then,
But I won’t feel.
Meet me now, instead.
You’ll wish you could have
spent more time with me,
Spend it now instead
When you hear I’m gone, you’ll find your way to my house to pay condolence but we haven’t even spoken in years.
Look, listen and reply to me now.
Spend time with every person around you, and help them with whatever you can to make them happy, your families, friends, and acquaintances.
Make them feel special because you never know when the time will take them away from you forever.
Alone I can ‘Say’ but together we can ‘Talk’.
Alone I can ‘Enjoy’ but together we can ‘Celebrate’
Alone I can ‘Smile’ but together we can ‘Laugh’
That’s the BEAUTY of Human Relations.
We are nothing without each other
So Stay Connected !!