Ronnie Shakes asserted very profoundly “I was going to buy a copy of “The Power of Positive Thinking”, and then I thought: What the hell good would that do?”
I must lead my life in the circle of people positive energy in time of adversity and high stress. I have decided to be most credulous. I will be judge by my all qualities and contributions not because of negative thinking.
People who unconsciously share negative energy affect my thinking and aura. Why negative people are controlling my vibrancy? Why people should affect my way of leading life?
People with negative feelings share time with you (most of the time they are free and idol). They share non sense talks. After their departure, you feel dull and bored. You find yourself more passive and less vibrant. Energy level is at too lower level. People deal with too many negative things. Why it is not happen? What are the causes and because? What was wrong? If I could have done that than I could have make it?
I must take decisions to avoid such people and slowly walk on those decisions. One day comes in life where you find such negative people are out of your life unconsciously .You find yourself among the circle of positive people. I must drop negative people today and add positive people in my orbit. I could be fail by 99 percentage but 1 percentage I could be successful and this 1 percentage make major differences.
In my experience, it is rare to find a really positive person in a circle of negative world. But leaders do play tough game.
How you can reach to such conclusions.
- Observe your feeling level after meetings.
- Check your energy level at the end of meeting.
- Review his reflections and reactions.
- Find your aura level.
- Refer your personal promises, compass, objectives and mission statement.
- Pass decision to continue or withdraw.
One of my participants (Sr. manager) asked me question in my workshop on managerial effectiveness. Shall I communicate person that I have withdrawn myself in relationship with you.
My answer is no. Not necessary.
There is no point in communicating your personal decision and personal next course of action to people who are making significant difference in your life. Once you start replacing people with positive energy, you will have positive results.
Initially you could not experience level of feelings but a day will come soon when you start observing and feeling very naturally at the end of meetings.
Such decisions slowly create circle of positive people around you… A day comes when you find yourself with only positive energy and in positive circles.