Leadership Life
October 28, 2012
, , , , , , , , , , , ,

One can recover from physical pain in a few days but emotional pain remains for lifetime.
Sometimes, harsh words are spoken in anger which affects deeply other people. Those who bear the brunt are deeply disturbed and find themselves lost in the relationship.
May be you say ‘sorry” for couple of times but the scar that it has left fails to go. The relationship that once was fine rarely returns. The original spirit of relationship has gone. Like a crack in the glass there is an invisible mark on the relationship.
Sometimes, we lose our cool and utter words unnecessarily at our near and dear ones. You even lose control over the language. Your emotions are totally disturbed and you find yourself totally out of self-control.
To avoid, such unhappy situations in relationship you need to exercise control over your emotions so that quick reactions don’t spoil the relationship. Why are you reacting so fast? Why in such a harsh way? Why lose control over language? Why is your state of mind completely disturbed? Why have you hurt your well-wishers turning them your hidden enemies?
Being good in all situations is sign of maturity and good temperament. This helps to steady your life at any stage. You may achieve commercial or monetary success but your character could be tested after that only. Temperament at the end of success shows your character.
You could be right at the time, you could be facing very difficult time, you could be facing losses at the initial stage or later stages. You could blamed for something you are not responsible or accountable. You could be a part of team which lost the game though you had performed at the highest level.
Yet, in all these situations, you are not supposed to lose your temper. Once lost, you damage your character .You will generate pain in someone’s heart emotionally, which could not be recovered after merely saying sorry.
One black dot could be seen in a white wall for lifetime. Crack in the glass could be seen for lifetime. No one will ever ask how it was done. Damage done is done.
You cannot mistreat the people around you whether you are right or they are wrong. Finally, what is right or wrong? It is your perception over the situation as you see it.
You maturity is the hallmark of how well you control your temper that is stamped on a relationship.
Your temper level and talent level has to match at every point in one’s timeline of life. Even, if it doesn’t match at any stage that does not allow you the license to uncontrolled behaviour.

About author

Dr Shailesh Thaker

Dr. Shailesh Thaker is a world-renowned management thinker and trainer on organizational behavior and development. He is the CLO of Knowledge Plus Inc., a highly reputed training firm based in Ahmedabad, India, helping organizations to achieve international benchmarks in management practices.

Related items

/ You may check this items as well


Intimacy and intuition are family members.

The ultimate taste of relationship where both coul...

Read more

CEO: show your heart size while fighting against crisis of the earth.

President Donald Trump had announced 50 billion US...

Read more

Don’t try to be a person of Success, but always be a Person of Value

The Nobel Laureate Prof. C. V. Raman after retirem...

Read more

There are 0 comments

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.