Reconciliation: Most important aspects.
It is not “forgive and forget” as if nothing wrong had ever happened, but “forgive and go forward,” building on the mistakes of the past and the energy generated by reconciliation to create a new future.
Desmond Tutu asserted that Forgiving and being reconciled to our enemies or our loved ones are not about pretending that things are other than they are. It is not about patting one another on the back and turning a blind eye to the wrong. True reconciliation exposes the awfulness, the abuse, the hurt, the truth. It could even sometimes make things worse. It is a risky undertaking but in the end it is worthwhile, because in the end only an honest confrontation with reality can bring real healing. Superficial reconciliation can bring only superficial healing.
When you do reconciliation in true sense than it make a huge difference. It is a process of heart and soul also. I see it as spiritual travel and make internal changes. In fact those who are looking forward for better life they must bring reconciliation in life. I believe, none is mistake free and everyone needs a space for improvement. Reconciliation could be the best practice.
I see it as most essential way of life. No one is mistake free. In reconciliation, you get a chance to correct it. You need to be so honest while doing it. It helps you in improving level of soul and heart. It can certainly make life better. I have seen couple of examples in life , through reconciliation, they are enjoying better life today.
You could stable harmony through it. I see it most powerful tool. It is said that leaders must live mistake free life. But , when you come to life, it is not possible. In a day to day life, people do commit mistakes. When you realise it as mistake than you should reconcile it without any doubts. I consider it as important as forgiveness. Only you need to be honest and pure.
Reconciliation is always company by justice, honesty, forgiveness and truth. Reality is always looking for peace and love. In establishing, non-violence truth and peace along with love , it could be a great way to society. Why the house of administration have reconciliation bill.? Why? What does it indicates? We all need to observe and watch through it. I believe, it could help mankind for better living.