I am in downtown of Toronto, Canada ….
sharing coffee with Dev.
He shared I have bloody regret of my current status. I should be what I shall be in life and actually my accomplishments are different. Sad. Terrific pain inside for not doing things which I am suppose to do.
Today I am facing regret in my heart/mind.
I show his eyes. full of pain. Speechless. Both of us. no noise. silence for few seconds.
Dev is living in most exciting house and drive latest car …His wallet have all credit cards without over dues. Absolute fit person and intelligence too.
Still, he is feeling hurt for regression.
I speak to him.
start living in to tomorrow. Be future focus.
You could not go back nor you can revert clock/time.
Gone means gone. Done means done.
But you can have better tomorrow…
of course , of your choice.
Life which you want to live could be live now!!!!
He is listening ….silence.
Of course, with coffee sharing …….
I say : do not think all about it at all. leave it. forget it.
( I know, easy for me and tough for you )
even though do it.
Remember it, this is gone time. Lost years.
you need to develop powerful self esteem by your few promises and deeds.
Keep few strong good friends. Who have very high self esteem and positive feelings.
True friends really helps , specially in bad time.
Process what’s happened, learn what you can but don’t let the rejection stop you for too long.
Don’t let it get you stuck for weeks or months.
With a focus on what you still got in life (that many in the world don’t have), on what you can maybe do differently and with your attention on your opinion of yourself and what you actions you can take keep moving forward.
Even if it’s by just taking one small step at first.
Journey of thousand miles starts with first step…… of course, miles to go but change status-qo.
Have a first step , right now!
under stand power of here and now.