May 28, 2013
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“When I was a little girl, everything in the world fell into either of these two categories: wrong or right. Black or white. Now that I am an adult, I have put childish things aside and now I know that some things fall into wrong and some things fall into right. Some things are categorized as black and some things are categorized as white. But most things in the world aren’t either! Most things in the world aren’t black, aren’t white, aren’t wrong, aren’t right, but most of everything is just different. And now I know that there’s nothing wrong with different, and that we can let things be different, we don’t have to try and make them black or white, we can just let them be grey. And when I was a child, I thought that God was the God who only saw black and white. Now that I am no longer a child, I can see, that God is the God who can see the black and the white and the grey, too, and He dances on the grey! Grey is okay.” Asserted very well by  C. JoyBell C.

There are no right and wrong ways in the world. There could be some basic practices which one could follow in his/her life that consider as right. Most of the people have rejected to follow as practice is consider as wrong.

As most of the people have followed in past like do hard work, do business with ethics and keep service attitude. Sleep early and rise up early. Prayer is food for soul. Listen people, trust people, and be with people in bad times. Friends listen you even if you do not speak.

Right is right even if no one is doing it; wrong is wrong even if everyone is doing it. But what is that? How someone can define right and wrong for 7 billion people of the world.?  Do you think community have empower one person to decide right and wrong for total community?

When you are on cross road what the right side is?  When you are planning for marriage, what you should select arrange marriage and love marriage? What side you should drive a car? What side we should have walk path? What part of boarding pass air craft gate keeper collect from passengers?

“There is really no right and wrong. I recognize no right and wrong.”

Mary Maclane  

Are right and wrong convertible terms?

..Next time you’re faced with a choice, do the right thing. It hurts everyone less in the long run.”

Generally tragedy or war or quarrel or destroyed or spoil of relationship between two right. Both the sides believe that it is right.

What is right is always right and what is wrong it always wrong. But who  decided right/wrong? WHY HE/ SHE DECIDE IT? Who are they to decide criteria for my life?  I have my senses and active senses, I am rise up and will decide right and wrong.

I believe there are wise judgments. People in past have done for couple of times and fail . Also research and rapports support those studies. Grand father and mother have judgments and they are not created from air . It comes out from observations and senses

A person says right is when you take decisions and right time and right place and right people. But who decide that everything which you have selected is right. To decide right, you need common sense. These common sense  could be developed by wise judgments. These all judgments are come up by multi experiences and research.

Success is the only soul of right and wrong.

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Dr Shailesh Thaker

Dr. Shailesh Thaker is a world-renowned management thinker and trainer on organizational behavior and development. He is the CLO of Knowledge Plus Inc., a highly reputed training firm based in Ahmedabad, India, helping organizations to achieve international benchmarks in management practices.

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