Learnings for Adults
love : 1000 questions and 1 answer.
April 11, 2017
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“Lao Tzu asserted that being deeply loved by someone gives you the strength while loving someone deeply gives you the courage.”
I had been able to judge people in four categories that know a person, loving a person, being a well-wisher and a friend. I see that all are justifying these categories too. But we become emotional and we forget the categories and consider them as our loved person. After that, all that happens, this is not expected at least from our side.
Love is the foundation of all virtues. When you find love in a relationship, it means, the relationship is beyond logics, calculations, profits and advantages. More or less it is a commitment to pain, sacrifice, adjustments and compromise. But you have said ‘YES’ to it as you love.
You can say ‘NO’ to anyone, but cannot offer ‘NO’ to love. Love, itself is so powerful virtue that it will live on planet till the humanity lives. None can replace it at any price. Few instances, few people and few events have reduced the glory of love on the stage of time and space. But, it is a temporary and not a permanent.
Love cannot disappear from life, nor from disorder, or get devalued by anyone till the end of the planet. Love means pain, avoiding pleasure, agreeing for adjustments, allowing compromises and ready to take any sacrifice. In the history of mankind, you find instances, where no meeting has taken place, nothing is replaced, nothing is demanded, and nothing is expected, even though love was at an optimum level.
Love is free from sex and physics. Love declares with selfishness. Love is never self-centric; love has nothing to do with gaining in the relationship.
Love never says ‘YES’ to the world of the intelligent people who are full of logics. Love is emotional, and not intelligent.
When you love someone, you become joyful, happy and it adds strength to you. Unconsciously, someone strengthens you by emotions. You are feeling better, smiling, charming and decent. You find yourself alive and joyous.
When you love someone, you become courageous, bold and are ready to go wild in love. Indirectly, you recognise the spirit of doing for another one without any cause. You do it because you are in love.

Love is never receiving but always giving.

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Dr Shailesh Thaker

Dr. Shailesh Thaker is a world-renowned management thinker and trainer on organizational behavior and development. He is the CLO of Knowledge Plus Inc., a highly reputed training firm based in Ahmedabad, India, helping organizations to achieve international benchmarks in management practices.

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